It’s great to be accommodating and get along with others, but there comes a point where you can take it too far and become a doormat foe everyone to walk all over. Look for these signs to see if you’re a people pleaser:
· You don’t speak up when you disagree. If…
The wounded child inside many females is a girl who was taught from early childhood on that she must become something other than herself, deny her true feelings, in order to attract and please others.
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| — | bell hooks, all about love: new visions (via introverts-unite) |
Something I’ve been thinking for a long time now… thought I’d share it. it’s not about “treats” or “cheats” it’s about choosing to have something and not letting it throw you off track of what you want the most.
Are You Ready To Settle Down?
You may have been in the dating scene for years or maybe you’ve only been at it for a short time, but there comes a time where people start to think about settling down. Here are some signs to watch for to see if you’re ready to settle down:
· You’re sick of going on first dates. First dates can be really fun. They’re full of potential, anticipation and jitters. But, if you’ve been on more first dates than you can remember and the thrill has worn out it’s welcome, you might be thinking of packing in your lucky first date outfit and finding someone to settle down with.
· You’re sick of small talk. The first few dates are always about getting to know each other and making small talk. If this is all you ever do and you never make it past this stage, you might be getting a little sick of it. If you find yourself craving a deeper connection that you get from being in a relationship, you are ready to settle down and find something more serious.
